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Originally Posted by HHI944
my gut is just telling me to walk away on this one.........actually, it's the same gut feeling I got the first time I met the last one....then she gradually won me over and we all know the rest of the story....
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see, starting relationships is like gambling: if you stay rational and walk away before you become invested in an outcome, things are much easier to work with.
however, if you let things go too far, in spite of what you think and feel, you become less and less rational. things start happening TO you instead of you causing things to happen. there has to be a balance.