Teezer, while you may think you 'think' like a guy sometimes - you really don't. But that's OK! What you do think like is a women who knows what she wants and has some confidence. That is atypical. The problem is men don't know how to relate to typical women very well in person let alone one that has life chops like you.
We can give great pointers over the airwaves but each and everyone of us has screwed up with women and frankly shouldn't be giving any real advice that should be taking too seriously.
Change to some Webers, install a sway bar, diagnose an electrical issue, heck this sight is prime. Ask a bunch of us monkeys about how to deal in a relationship and you will get a cornucopia of answers ranging from 'he's gay' to, 'get naked on him' to 'your titys are to small'. (For the record, I don't think he is gay and your titys look very nice.)
And as far as your idea about spending more time with your gal pals - great idea! If you ever have a sleep over and get into a tickle fight, please take pics. And don't worry, just cuz you may kiss another girl and experiment doesn't make you a lesbian - just adventurous!
