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Originally Posted by tweezers74
Uggggg!!!! I think my initial stand when I met him set up the way the relationship was going to be. When he asked me straight out if I was looking for a relationship and I said no, it did change. Slightly. Less flirting. He told me he was looking for a relationship.
Enough chit chat about this. I hate when girls sit around and super analyze relationships and go around in circles and this is what I am doing. Blech! I need to heed the advice of so many of you and just chill. Stop thinking so hard. Just let it be. Keep him as a friend and let him direct the friendship... the ball is in his court.
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Well, so many times we are not looking, we still find. Despite the fact that you said that you were not looking, you are now in a relationship, it is as friends. It can evolve and if it does for both of you, great.
It is OK to at some point to remind him of your prior conversation and to say that time has changed that answer, and that that is based on your getting to know him.
... and you are correct to not over-think it, but also incorrect you both will direct the friendship.