[plumb4u2]

My wife and I have been together since high school (17yrs) we just had our 12th anniversary on Jan 7 (we got married on our 5yr anniversary)

Yes we have been together sense 16yrs old and have gone through a lot, the hardest thing for us was the struggle we had trying to have children
after a few yrs of trying we finally found out that I can not have kids naturally, we then went through 4 rounds of invetro and finally ended up with our wonderful Boy Girl Twins who are now 4yrs old and awesome kids

Im sure some of you here have probably had to go through invetro and if you have you know the emotional times that the women goes through

I our case, after we were unsuccessful 3 times my wife said we should just give up (I knew this was not what she wanted to do)

I had to force her to give it one more shot and now we are the luckiest people in the world

I must admit that I am not the easiest man to live with especially with my 3 day a week golf habit but she knows golf makes happy and also spending time with my friends so she supports that

We are also lucky to have a lot of family support that loves to watch the kids so that gives us a lot of time to spend alone time together

It does cross my mind from time to time what it would be like to go out and play the field but then I think about what we have built together and how I never want that to change