Perhaps I live in hindsight but looking in the rearview mirror, I am so glad I divorced my first wife. Fortunately I did not have children. If you feel something is wrong with a relationship the sooner the better to get out. If in doubt before marriage get out of it. If not happy before kids, get out. If you are not happy and have kids, then it is too late. Committed. I was lucky to escape and find a decent honest wife. Will be married 25 years next July to 2nd wife. No regrets
