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Ah, Patrick.
Recently, my very aged father experienced a sudden loss of sight. He can still see somewhat, but it will alter the rest of his life. I literally just returned from seeing him, and I have to admit, this is the first time ever in my life that I have seen him at a loss. It was good to be there for him, just to be there.
I must confess that I have not been to honest or forward with my thoughts and feelings as you have. I have been very angry, taking it out on those around me, and no doubt some of you here. It has been a lot easier for me to be angry than to be open and honest about what I really feel, so I must say that I admire your facing the feelings you are having and your willingness to express them and be so clear about them.
We don't always fool the ones who love us about our feelings as much as we fool ourselves, so thanks for being straight with us. All I have to offer you in return is my condolences, and to let you know that what you have shared has meant something important to me.
Keep sharing, and trust that your mother somehow knows how you feel.
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