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Originally Posted by porsche4life

Max, talk to her, be sincere, be sweet, and funny. Show her that you aren't playing around, and that she matters.

good advice.

Originally Posted by svandamme

I'm repeating the advice i've given out before.

Punch yerself in the nuts each time you catch yerself thinking of that chick.
The obsession will soon fade and balance will be restored to the Force.

not sure about that one, might end up with some physical injury!!!!

Max, from the woman's perspective, all I can say is just start giving her a bit of a smile and looks and then start up a conversation, give her a chance to see that your a nice guy, ask her out for a chat, coffee, drink, but I would prefer a coffee and cake. Going out for a drink is usually in too much of a crowded noisy place, not much opportunity for getting to know one another, unless you have somewhere nice and quiet, where you can talk. Movies, no opportunity for talking . I know my hubby was very shy, we were good friends at work, but he was just not up to asking me out, so I asked him out in the end, gave up waiting. But in retrospect having about 8-10 months of getting to know one another at work was a good thing, we were friends first, then jumped in the sack. Most people do it the other way round these days, and if all is not great, it doesn't last, because they are not friends who want to sort things out.

my 2 cents worth.