[speeder]

Everyone is talking about their wife and what she's like as though wives are all pretty much interchangeable. Like a certain year of used car, just some have more or fewer miles on them, etc...

How are a bunch of strangers on the Internet supposed to help you with this dilemma? We don't know your wife, or anything about either one of you or your relationship. You seem to know her pretty well.

Off the top of my head, I'd say that if you only like one color for a car and your wife hates it, (AND it's a really loud/obnoxious color that you can see from outer space), you have some serious passive-aggressive issues and she thinks you're a schmuck. But that's just a WAG. In a marriage, both parties should have veto power over certain things, like the color of a 3000 lb. object that's going to be sitting in the driveway for years. Surely there are other colors you like that do not make her sick. I work with color for a living and I love yellow but it's a tough color. It can be beautiful or horrible and cheap-looking, depending on the hue/tone and of course it's all completely subjective.

I think that you know your wife and what you should do better than any stranger on a keyboard.