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Originally Posted by RKDinOKC
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If she does not want to marry him (remember no friends with this guy), SHE needs to tell the Mom it's me or the XBF. SHE needs to stop answering the XBF's calls, Don't let him in the door. If he persists, SHE needs to call the police, and if need be get a restraining order. If the Mom tries to talk to her about him, SHE needs to hang up the phone or leave. Pretty simple really.
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Don't know if this was clear form the begining, but she still lives at home with her mom (and him apparently)
Boyfriend practically lives there and mom has taken him in like a son... Whenever something happens, she gets the blame for everything.
She does need to tell mom to make a choice but she is afraid that mom will choose for the ex and ask her to leave.. (can you friggin believe that???)
IMO, she should leave but that is not so simple. It is for us, not for her.