[svandamme]

exactly, the girl, obviously is insecure and unable to sort out her chit.
Sucks for her, but anybody older then 30 who can't take control over his or her own destiny is either damaged goods and/or excess bagage..



any kind of relation ship as such will either require you to detach her from the old stuff,
and then attach her to yourself.. eg serious commitment.,

like picking up a stray dog that has been abused and is now scared of it's own shadow, it takes a lot of work to get things sorted out..
and frankly , no offense G but i'm thinking you're just chasing it cause she's in need of a rescue.. and the moment she's rescued and in your house you'll get bored again..

but that's my guess, what do i know other then the nutpunch cure anyway..?