[asphaltgambler]

I did my fathers 2 years ago. I am the youngest of 4. I wanted to do it in spite of tradition where typically the eldest son does. My father was a prime example of the greatest generation. I felt very passionate about really honoring him.

Even though he was 88, I wanted him to be shown relevant in todays world. He was fascinating man and I wanted his 'story' to be told. I worked on it like a mad man h3ll bent on making that 20 mins the most interesting eulogy ................ever.

I told the story in a relaxed, conversational way looking at my notes, which were in large type AND I told it somewhat out-of-order like Pulp fiction.

After his service I had everyone tell me that the whole thing was very moving and inspiring. One elderly woman came to me and privately said it was the BEST funeral she had ever attended!! I laughed out loud!

Basically I gave it my best effort to honor my Dad, did everything un-conventional.