The funny thing is that my Mom's side of the family (which is most of my aunts and uncles since my Dad only has one sister) take relationships rather slowly. The men are very afraid of commitment and though they are settled down they are not married. My Mom's only sister, though went the opposite way and that branch of the family is, uh, a little turbulent. My cousin who is the same age as me is her grandchild
and is getting married this summer. Married?! At my age?
Unfortunately I do not see the marriage lasting very long, though I don't know her. They met at some burger joint where they both worked. He has a history of flunking school and bouncing around rough neighborhoods and between households. He did join ROTC and that straightened him out, so I will hope for the best.
But I definately take after my Mom's brothers.