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Originally Posted by porsche4life

I work alone on most things as well, and I do usually prefer it. But when you find someone that you truly enjoy spending time with, doing anything, you realize that the working alone isn't what you really enjoy, you just enjoyed being able to do what you do with no distractions. If you enjoy being with that person, they aren't a distraction.

I would suggest finding someone that is adventurous like yourself, and willing to at least try your hobbies. My first serious gf had no interest in cars, and that put a major damper on things.... I'm doing much better this time around.

Also find someone that you can learn from, but that is willing to learn from you as well. When you are learning from each other, is when you will discover the most about each other, no matter what you are doing.

And most importantly, find someone that you love spending time with. I'm talking can be together literally nonstop and not get tired of them.

I agree. The hard part for me is meeting people. Nerves.

The distraction bit. I don't know if I ever really realized that. It does sound true. It would be nicer to do those things I love with someone. Then it is not dividing my time.