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Originally Posted by Flieger
I understand the advice about being myself, and that is exactly why I don't want to go to the bar to meet someone.
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You're in college. It's a bit of a different time. For all you know, that cute blond girl with blue eyes you've told us about goes to the local bar once in awhile, too. Not necessarily to get hammered and pick up guys. But because she wants to hang out with her friends and someone in the group suggested they stop off at a bar. But you'd never know that, unless you actually bump into her at said watering hole. Or maybe she and her friends just wanted to get something to eat, and that's the reason they're there. Or maybe she just tends bar there as a job to help pay her way through school.
Point is, I understand your reluctance to involve yourself in the bar scene. But sometimes people go to a bar for reasons other than (personal) intoxication.