Let's see...boozing, folk dancing, knitting classes, and stained glass window building?
Max, go bicycling, hiking, climbing. Go to concerts at school (hopefully they're cheap or free). If there's art shows, go to them. Go to the farmer's market in town and get something to eat, and sit and watch the people. But don't go to any of these events with your eyeballs bugged out looking for women. Just go and see if you enjoy the events/activities. Force yourself to do a little of this every week. You sound like you need to become more well-rounded, and coincidentally be in places where the opposite sex happens to be. From there, well, sh^t happens.