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Originally Posted by Flieger
That sounds awkward to sit there and not drink while others are. I think my mind would be wandering more towards engineering subjects unless there were some girl talking to me. I don't think I would feel any more comfortable trying to start a conversation with a girl at a bar than I would be anywhere else.
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OK, Max this is the last thing I will say on the issue.
Most of my advice sounds complicated and takes alot of work.
So this is easy, true and simple.
You need to get to the point that you can talk to the girls like you talk to the boys you know.
To do this means you have to talk to them, lots of them.
See how the operate to the point that you are relaxed.
Sorry to say this, as from your point this may seem scary
This is the only way that you can become genuine friends, and go on from that.
The begining and end are not seperate!
To get to the point you want you must make a start.
Its not going to happen if you dont make that start.
I dont care if its the girl in your class or a hooker!
Just make a start.
They are just people like us.
So talk to them.
Old, young, whatever.
Make that start.
Good luck.
