No, I said no formal date.
I just want you to go to some coffee house, buy a drink, you both say "Um...So..." Sip, sip, sip.. Okay, bye! I did not set a time for the meaningful conversation, but more than 5 minutes.
The phone number will be difficult and I realize now, that asking you to get "her" number may be unfair, since women are not so willing to hand out their number and with reason. I was thinking of that so you could set a time if "now" wasn't going to work for the casual coffee.