See, that's the difference. I am not a speed demon. Especially because I have two boys. I want to enjoy it but safely. I don't think you give up your passions ever. You can tone them down. Be more strategic about when and how to do it so it is more safe and financially smart for your family. I want to teach my kids to love life. Not to live in a bubble. Enjoy what you love... Even it means you have to tone it down.
I plan to be the large tushed gray haired Asian woman on her bike cruising down highway 1 one day....