Like I said, I just don't know what to say.
I owe much of my character to my parents and how they raised me. And they raised me with religious values such as respect for others. Could I have learned that from them without church? Certainly. But still, it was the base for the values. I might have been just another idiot out there raising hell otheriwse. But I might not. I just don't know. I respect the foundations of Catholicism and its mission. The humans trying to carry out the will of God can and do err. But don't dismiss an entire religion based on that. The Church went through the Protestant Reformation and fixed the problems which sparked it. Maybe your quest can do similarly.
I personally think married priests would be good. I don't see what the theological problem is with it, other than it is not Traditional. Tradition is a big thing in Catholicism, as you might expect from a 2,000 year old organisation.