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Originally Posted by Noah930

While good encouragement to Max, that's looking at it from the GF side of things. Look at it from the angry BF side of things: Max = threat to his manliness that must be eliminated/taught a lesson.

My business partner told me a story from his youth. He found some gorgeous girl who was interested in him. He went over to her place one night. Apparently she thought it was incredible sex; he says he lasted so long because he couldn't, um, finish because in his mind he kept thinking of her very large and not-so-well-tempered recent ex-BF. Finally, on his way out the door to his car the angry recent ex-BF confronted him in the street. My partner thought he was a goner. But, quick thinker that he was, my partner (in between pleading for his life) reminded the ex-BF that if the ex-BF were to beat him up, then the ex-BF would likely wind up back in jail. Something clicked, and the angry ex-BF let my partner go.

very true. but no harm in asking is my point. if she has a boy friend then she should be telling him that. If she is looking to move on this might be the push off the fence she needs.