[recycled sixtie]

I am not a psychologist or a lawyer but an older guy.
You and your son have had a serious accident and you have been through a divorce. A psych. would say that you have experienced two highly stressful situations. Close to 30 years ago I went thru a divorce, no kids though and found it stressful. I understand your situation and you will get through it. Yes listen to these fellow pelican posters. They make a lot of sense. I can hear the pain in your post. Do what you have to do especially for your son's sake.Good luck and you will survive all this!