Leeland,
Do you think you could squeeze a 350Z out of your wallet? Or perhaps a WRX coupe? The only other one I can think of would be a Honda S2000 if you can live with a roadster. All of these have good all around performance and have all those OTHER things you are looking for.
However, if you are expanding your family anytime soon....how about a nice SUV? Just kidding!
Wish I could consider buying your car though! I passed up the chance to buy an almost perfect all original 78SC coupe 22K mi with just about every option available White/Red full leather and had the Martini Racing stripes decals. You could eat off the interior of the wheel wells! What was I thinking?