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As Tweezers said I think your greatest challenge will be mental.

My GF had two hip replacements in her 30s...and I was there to help. The most challenging aspect was the balance between her perception of 'being strong and not being a burden' and the harsh reality that for a while she was handicapped and dependent.

Your approach to the enforced time 'off' is crucial...perhaps view this as a great opportunity to watch a load of films you have not had the opportunity to watch, or read books, or write....and enjoy the freedom from daily household tasks. It does not last forever....Enjoy the help offered for simple things, like putting socks on and so forth...those people care about you, and their desire to help is a positive, not necessarily a sign of 'oh he can't do it'.

The acceptance of this temporary state by both you and your wife is essential....it will affect your lives for a while and dealing with that change is tough.