[speeder]

I have a dear friend who lost an 8.5 month old daughter last week. We're a bunch of grown men who've had better lives than 99.99% of the people who've ever lived on earth, with our Porsches and trips to Europe and getting laid, having loving families, eating great food, etc..

Whenever I go, I've had it lucky. As long as it isn't a stroke + nursing home. The old saying is that if you're lucky, you die of a heart attack. If you're not lucky, cancer. This from a dear 89 y.o friend who watched his Army buddies get blown to bits in Europe 69 years ago.

I am still sorry about your buddy, Hugh. But he's not suffering, only his survivors.