You must embrace the beast. Own her. Below is the collection of Black Widows as well as some other local fair. Each speciman is in a differnet stage of development - some of the coloring has faded due to my use of isopropanol as a perservative.
This has been used in grade school as well as a neighborhood curio teaching the kiddos that Black Widows are only black after a year or so of life, during their first year they have strips and the young ones are actually brown.