So, stripper chick is a product of mom's previous marriage. New hubby (and step-grandpa) has four kids from previous marriage that turned out o.k. Maybe with a few more years of maturity under her belt, and a bit better foundation provided by new hubby, grandma is looking to right the wrongs of her previous effort in child rearing.
Of course, then again, with a real hubby who has kids of his own, maybe stripper mom has turned it around and wants a chance to raise her own kid and do right by him.
Tough situation. Sounds like multi-generational checkered pasts, at least on the mom/grandma side of the equation. Sounds like new grandpa may be the better bet, unless he met grandma in a strip club, too. Gotta wonder about stripper hubby, if that's where he met his wife. Geez... Peyton flippin' Place...