[onewhippedpuppy]

Originally Posted by Buckterrier

First Allen sorry for your misfortune. As others have said in x amount of years you'll look back at all this and be the stronger for it.
With that said I'm not sure why you are picking out bead colors etc for the wedding. Do you really care? You already are doing the hardest part, saying "I do".

With all due respect to Matt I would not just let the pros handle the other stuff. The pros probably put down the wood floor over the moldy carpet in the first place. You need to stay on top of your home to make sure it IS livable especially if you two are planning on living there. Have a talk with the Mrs. to be. Tell her you have faith in her bead decisions etc & you'll help as much as possible but at this point you need to keep focused on the house, (& the car if it is that important to you, ((& her)).
I may have been lucky but basically I had to show up for the wedding, the bead colors were fine with me.

Good luck with it all.

While I never recommend to turn a blind eye to what your contractors are doing, it doesn't sound like our friend here has the bandwidth to DIY much of anything at the moment, and that's coming from a hardcore DIY guy. Keeping his sanity (and the sanity of his fiance) should be top priority. If insurance is paying for it to be fixed, let them fix it.