[Z-man]

It will all get resolved. Getting married can be stressful, but try to focus on the positives.

In my case, 3 days prior to my wedding, I found out that our reservations for our honeymoon in Hawaii were gone. Turns out the owner of the travel agency I booked through embezzed against the company, took the money and ran. Long story short -- I eventually got my $$ back through my Credit Card Company (Citibank), and my department's secretary was able to make reservations for a nearly identical trip to Hawaii on that day. Of course, it cost me an additional $1000.00 for the trip, but that didn't matter at that point.

Do you need your p-car? Is it your daily driver? If not, I would consider selling it for now, until you are able to get to a better financial situation. Will you have a huge wedding to pay off afterwards? Can your financee help with paying for the honeymoon? Do you have any investments you can cash in to pay for the honeymoon? Can you borrow against a 401k to pay for it? Short term loan from a friend?

If you look hard enough, I am sure you will find a viable solution.

Good luck!
-Z

PS: Been married 17 years now, and still my honeymoon story makes for good conversation...