[Baz]

Maybe the person who did the damage hasn't a clue about being a responsible human.

Friendship is about respect first and foremost.

If someone is not very responsible by their nature....I don't see how one could respect them, do you?

Thus their is no basis for friendship.

I totally get that....

Everyone has a different set of criteria for "friendship" defined.

I hold others to a pretty high standard myself.

Seems like there are many like-minded folks here - but not all have the same criteria.

I was raised to be respectful and responsible. Isn't that what you want from your "friends"?