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Originally Posted by cstreit
Understand your point, but when inviting out someone for non-social reasons, would you just say "lets go out" or give an objective or reason for doing so?
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No.
I would stand up in the middle of the office and say, "hey, you want to go grab a cup of coffee?" Or an email, "want to grab a cup of coffee? See you at the door in 15!"
And that's it. Gender is not a factor in the decision. It's just coffee.
But again - no matter what, if you have a weird vibe, then just don't go.
edit: my husband says that I have a strong leadership position, and that this probably colors my opinion on this - that there are women who would use something like "meeting for coffee" as a sexual ploy...
angela