[cairns]

Geezuz friggin christ. All this over coffee? A woman asks you out for coffee and you think she wants to f you?? Maybe- but only if you shared those kinds of vibes when you worked with her. Don't you have any friends that are female?

Far more likely she just wants to get together. I meet friends/former co-workers (female & male) for lunch and they invariably ask me out (I'm just too lazy). Some of the women are married some not but they all know I am. We're friends not lovers.