I afraid you think too much, unless there is something you have not told us. If you want a coffee with an old friend (coworker), go for it. If you "want" her, go and find out, but make it a dinner instead. If you don't care what she thinks, don't go and forget about it. An email such "sorry, busy that day. Maybe another time".
There is a type of girl who would tell eveyone that the guy likes her, only when he said "hey, you looke nice today". There is also a type of girl who would "almost" flirt with you but that doesn't mean she likes you. Some would tell you things such "long time no see. I miss you. Let's go for lunch. etc", and even a wink or a nice body movement... and that is all she would give you. The teaser type. So, don't waste your time and assume.
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Originally Posted by recycled sixtie
more foreward than they used to be. Namely if a woman u worked with previously asked u out for coffee would u:
1. not reply to the email
2. say u are bringing your wife
3. the positive response is I don't need to know.
So this is a 2 part question. Are women nowadays more aggressive?
2. How do you handle an email like this?
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