Tom, you are an idiot. Keep talking like that and you aren't gonna achieve your New Year's goal!
On the cusp of turning 40 myself, I look back at my 20's and 30's and I had WAY more fun in my 30's. And I anticipate having even more fun in my 40's. There is truly something liberating and freeing about not giving a crap about what other people think anymore.
Now shut your whining and do something a little more productive than getting sloshed at the Saucer, will ya?