[tevake]

Sure sounds like your name is flagged for some reason, could be as simple as someone with the same name.

I would think that it would be in every ones interest for them to be more forth coming with folks in your situation so the misidentification could be cleared up and not have them repeating this at each airport. For their sake as much as yours.

Its a bummer to be singled out of a crowd like that embarrassing and humiliating.
You must be dreading your next trip.

Feeling for you,
Richard