[creaturecat]

Originally Posted by rwest

My thought is that as long as you're going to keep it and use it, value doesn't matter since she felt that her father wanted it to go to someone who appreciated it. If you go back and tell her that it is worth a lot of money and does she want it back, you're putting her in a position to look look bad by asking for it back.

Write her a nice letter about the times you spent with her dad and how much you enjoy having his old gear. Then enjoy it without guilt.

Best,
Rutager

this is good advice.