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No much at all, really. We figured out all the big stuff in advance, made some communication tweaks like Jim (which is sooo critical: pay attention, youngsters!) and moved on to raising our children.
I didn't get married until I was 35 (my wife is nine years younger than I am) but I had a good sense about what I wanted out of life and was willing to wait to find the right person to marry, a person who would not occasion major changes in my lifestyle other than the responsibility of raising children.
The same is true for her, BTW: Twenty-two years later she remains smarter, better looking and more talented than I.
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1996 FJ80.
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