[Dueller]

He's a fellow lawyer, Porschefile, motorcycle enthusiast, etc. They had no kids. He's obviously out of sorts. We've talked candidly about her demise beforehand but beyond being around and lending a sympathetic ear,

I am at a bit of a loss on how to respond now. Trying to keep him somewhat distracted by getting him over, doing some joint projects, calling him and meeting for lunch. Basically just letting him know I'm herei for him, but I don't want to go overboard.

He's particularly lost as he's spent so much of the last few years taking care of her.

If any of you have lost a spouse to death, tell me what you needed most during your grieving process.