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"if my wife wont let me do ___________, time to get another wife. it can be anything...buy whatever i want, go anywhere i want..etc."

Depend on what you want your wife to be. Marriage has many definitions. Sometimes guys talk like he is too proud of how they are in their marriage, but others might not think so. To me, Winders makes complete sense.

"man, if you have to check with her, you married the wrong woman"
Well, I have heard guys talk like this all the time. Once I was with a friend of mine, one of this type, and his wife. His wife got mad at him for no reason, and he shut it mouth like a chiken. Don't be supprise many guys talk the opposit.