[Gogar]

Every example you give has some kind of qualifier or excuse added.

BUT they have no proof it was my dogs
BUT my dog can't be on a leash, it scares him
BUT my dogs are good dogs
BUT i was nice to them
BUT why does she have to be such a beyotch
BUT they said it was ok at first



My answer is this:

If they don't want your dog over there, you need to make damn well sure your dog is not over there. Period. END OF STORY.

If they don't want the girls walking through their property, then you need to make sure the girls do not walk through their property. END OF STORY.

You need to be the nicest mother effer on the block, regardless of how you actually feel. That's it.

You can't claim the moral high ground you obviously want in this situation until

1. Your dogs do not go over there. Ever.
2. You respect their right to not have the girls walk through their property. It just doesn't matter if it's stupid or not.


I do hope it works out for you! Nobody wants schitty neighbors. No one wants to be the schitty neighbor either.




PS: You gotta cool it with the commas, man.