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I encourage you to proceed carefully. Five years from now you don't want to be known as the guy that didn't want his grandchild to be born. You also don't want to damage a relationship with someone who may be in your life forever, whether you like it or not.

I find it commendable that your son wants to stand up and do right by her and the baby. Even if he's a bit naive, that speaks to his character. As said before, his life has changed, no matter what happens from here on out. If you pressure them for abortion, he could carry that for the rest of his life as well. I have friends dealing with issues from that.

Above all, make sure that your relationship with your son stays intact. Of course you're mad, but that anger isn't going to help anybody.