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Thanks for the advice so far, I am trying not to be the bad guy with no heart. My son is a good guy but I think he is a little disillusioned about how difficult it will be. I talked to him at length about the timing and the possibility it isn't his. They will not do testing until the child is born. I guess because of the risks involved. He says if it isn't his he will move on and not assume responsibility.
I am sure that if the ages were reversed we would be in a VERY different mode of coping.
I realize there is not much my wife and I can do at this point and anger isn't the answer, what has been done is done.
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