[ShakinJoe]

Chief,

This just happened to my nephew, although he was 18 and he had just turned 17. He was in Air Force Acadamy and she was a server at a greasy spoon living with her 40 year old mother and her newborn sister of 6 months, both the kids fatherless.

They are married while he works for minimum wage at a furniture store. His life is absolutely shot at this point. Very sad.

Do the paternity test. Do not worry about being hard nose right now because you might be thinking that you should have been harder on him earlier. This is a biggee and I hope you guys get thru it.