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Tough situation your family's in Chief, but you've been through much tougher times than this! You're getting some good advice here, I would recommend the adoption route, but that's just me. I do not support abortions, but then again, I'm not having one, am I? Their life will be a little more difficult with a child to care for at their age, but many have done it. Your son's strength of character will help, but the girl's irresponsibility (still not finished with school) will not help. Support them in any way you feel is appropriate and love them through this.