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Join Date: Sep 2001
Location: Dismal Nitch, AZ
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I understand your search.
I serendipitously found this book at a garage sale for $1.00 back when I first started my 40 yr. business.
All my life, I always admired those who had Charm (mostly women), and, more importantly those who could reject me and/or my ideas and at the same time have me feel good about it. After years of maturation, I would say that Charm is best when it's combined with authenticity & genuineness...and some honesty, but not radical honesty.
This book would be my suggestion. Look for it.
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That Certain Something: The Magic of Charm: Arlene Francis: 9780191151965: Amazon.com: Books
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"Fully integrated people, in their transparency, tend to not be subject to mechanisms of defense, disguise, deceit, and fraudulence."
- - Don R. 1994, an excerpt from My Ass From a Hole in the Ground - A Comparative View
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