[slodave]

Your ex has not hit rock bottom yet. I hate to say it, but if your kids are with him if he has been drinking and then driving them around...

I understand your kids would be crushed if they could not see their father. It's going to be hard, but the threat of 100% custody and no visitation may be the ultimate ultimatum. If he wants to be the best dad he can, he'll think hard and really try to turn around for his kids.

Sorry to be so blunt.

Good luck, Thuy.

Dave