[RKDinOKC]

Not just pin the dog down, put it on it's back. That is the submissive position. Do not let the dog up until it completely quits fighting back and calms down, i.e.. gives up control. I had to not just hold her down, but lay on top of my dog for several minutes for her to stop trying to get out from under me.

When feeding an alpha dog, wait until the people have eaten, then immediately AFTER give the dog food or treats. This establishes not only is the dog part of the pack, but it's order is at the bottom because it gets it's portion last.

I really really really hated hitting my dog to get her attention to stop bad behavior, but it was only because it was the last resort recommended by several professional trainers. Everything they tried, even the Dog Whisperer type of stuff, she saw as a game.

My brother does that ignore the dog, give it no attention thing, blocking her that the dog whisperer does and she treats him the same as everyone else...tries to get his attention and be recognized for a few minutes, then goes back to doing her own thing.