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A little background: My friend's daughter has twin 6 yo sons. The boy's father and her ex husband is a POS Dirt Bag Father. One boy has cancer. The first thing POS DBF said when he learned his son had cancer was, "I'm not selling my bike." The family has fallen on hard times and mom and the boys live with grandma (my friend).
I was visiting last night and POS DBF came over and announced that he was suing to have his child support payments lowered because their expenses are lower now that they live with grandma. I kept my mouth shut until he said something about wanting to teach his boy how to be a man. I knew I should keep a low profile but I couldn't help myself. At that point I said, "What would you know about being a man?"

I told him that a man's highest calling is caring for his children. Pointed out that he was such a failure as a man that his own sons had to turn to charity of have a roof over their heads. And now that they were successful and finding someone else to cover for his failings, here he is, making BS excuses to be even less of a man for his sons. I pointed out that real men do not subscribe to the ghetto definition of fatherhood where you breed sons and leave it to someone else to raise them. I may have said something about him being a whiney beoch who would rather drink beer and play with motorcycles than be a man to his sons too, which I regret no matter how true it is. He left in a huff and the mom and grandmother are not happy with me disrespecting the useless POS. From my point of view, I was the only one in the house who knows what being a man is about.