She didn't insist on my wife coming in, but she said they make an all out effort to be sure everyone is on the same page and don't want to find out way down the road that a good job prospect turns out to be unpalatable to the spouse (porn, perhaps
). I told her my wife couldn't care less what I do, already thinks I goof off all day (because I work from home in shorts and ride a motorcycle everywhere), and only cares that I have a job with a decent income that keeps me at home about three weeks out of the month. It's not like she's gonna get any hard info out of Mrs. Lee that I can't already tell her.