Oh Angela! I am so sorry I giggled at your little scenario but this is EXACTLY something I would do. I am horrible at remembering birthdays and anniversaries. Luckily, my ex didn't make a big deal of them so I never got caught. BUT, that being said, I realized that not celebrating these milestones wasn't good either. What a wonderful husband you have. And by the votes here, I don't think he would mind a little make up "something something" with all the extras.
AND March 14th is coming up... You could go rock star on that. Good luck! And keep that man of yours. They are hard to find. Lucky woman.