[recycled sixtie]

I will carry on with the questions. Sounds like a game show.
What is communication? Perhaps you should have run the car buying by her first.
I did that with a Miata 6 years ago. She was not happy. 4 years ago I consulted with her about a P car and upgraded and this time with air cond. and heated seats.

As always on this forum the answers you get maybe not what you want to hear. I try to please my wife and she tries to please me or else married life can be let's say challenging....

Speaking of bank accounts, we do have a joint a/c for agreed on items.Also have my money and her money a/c's.